Case Study 1
Type 1 - Immobilised by Ideals
This man came to me because he felt frustrated in not knowing how to make a move on the woman he wanted to have children with. By helping him to identify his core motivation and blocks to being able to achieve his goal, he was able to approach his set of circumstances in a whole new light.
Problem: Type 1 feels frustrated not knowing how to make a move on the woman he wants children with.
The Full Story
This client will be reffered to as type 1 in order to protect his privacy.
Type 1 feels frustrated not knowing how to make a move on the woman he wants children with. Like many in his age group, this client felt his good looks will land him his girlfirend and by showing up offering compliments. His communication with her via text was having a positive effect responding with a red love heart. But due to his own insecurities he was not able to maintain this level of sweet affection. Despite how much he tried to contain his underlying sexual desires for her, his sexual energy bled out in his communication with her as his language style became restrained and tight and he no longer felt sincere in his compliements.
She did not appreciate how he was not able to effectively manage his mounting sexual desires which were directed at her as it made her feel uncomfortable.