Type Eight - The Challenger Boss

Potent, Decisive, Confrontational, Confident, Dominant 

Eights are self-confident, strong, and assertive. They are protective, resourceful, straight-talking, and decisive. They can also be ego-centric and domineering. Eights feel compelled to control their environment and others. They do this by being confrontational, intimidating and losing their tempers in order to avoid being vulnerable. At their Best: self- mastering, they use their strength to improve others' lives, becoming heroic, magnanimous, and inspiring.

A special note about Eights:
Eights are the truth seers, and the truth sayers of our world. They come off as intense, but you probably would too if you constantly saw the injustices of the world everywhere you turned. Eights not only see the injustices, but believe it is their duty to get their hands dirty to restore justice and protect those in need.

It's no wonder so many people find the Eight personality to be so intimidating - when presented with a truth that one is not ready to face, or is adamant to continue denying... it's easier to kill the messenger.
"Destroy that which tries to destroy my illusions" we might yell as we carry our pitchforks and knives.
"Run away!" we might shout, as we avert our gaze and avoid looking, as if we somehow know that catching a possible glimpse of truth will shatter our illusions forever.

And the Eight, incarnated to bear it all while baring it all, carry such heavy loads while shouting at everyone else for their burdens. However, they know that it is only them who can carry their burdens, as others would potentially crumble under the load.

It's important, as an Eight, to learn about the divine timing that comes with the gift of truth. Not that they much care what people think or how they are received. But as they integrate into their Two-ness, they can find a gentle way to penetrate the souls of others with a truth that ushers in the joining.

Eights are strong, confident, assertive and resourceful types who are protective, straight-talking, and decisive. Prone to ego-centricity and dominance, when pushed they can feel compelled to control their environment and others around them through intimidation and confrontation. They can easily lose their temper in order to avoid feelings of vulnerability.

At their Best: self-mastering and improving the lives of others through strength and through their magnanimous and inspiring disposition.

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The essence of the Eight is Shakti or Cosmic Power which born into a body runs a basic fear of being harmed or controlled by others.

The essence of Shakti or Cosmic Power constricted by a body runs the desire to protect oneself, but can be depleted by their incessant compulsion to fight.  

Lust runs this form, and the drive for intensity, control and self extension causes them to push hard at most things in life and assert themselves willfully.

The chief feature thus is vengeance.

The holy idea of truth is at their very foundation and they indeed herald it in every conscious breath.

Their holy path is innocence.

The Externalised Anger Point

Essence: Shakti, Cosmic Power

Holy Path: Innocence

Chief feature: Vengeance

Passion Lust

Idealisation: I am competent

Talking style: Laying trips

Trap: Justice

Defence Mechanism: Denial

Avoidance: Weakness

Dichotomy: Puritan/Hedonist

Subtype: Self Preservation – Satisfactory Survival

Social – Friendship

Sexual – Possession/Surrender

The Lusty Lover – Life is Rough / I'm Tougher – I'll Show You How To Do It My Way.

Lust demands gratification and a cut to the chase. Making up after fighting is a stimulant. If they want you, they will find a way to have you, demanding control in the bedroom. Sex is plentiful and passionate, and desires of domination flood the arena while the masculine quality misses the hours of foreplay that is possible.

Eight's Advance Themselves: moving with lust toward another, creating intrigue and intensity. “Step into the fire with me”

Moving against others to be in charge, take over and dominate, wanting things to be done according to their needs. They seek autonomy and will not enjoy being restricted sexually.

Wing Seven and Nine and stretch/release points Two and Five can all relate.

Love Type: Erotic – counter type. Sex is about self fulfillment- an earthly, physical urge.

Relationship Belief: "I have a strong sexual drive. I'm self sufficient. Relationships are good, but I don't need to be in one to survive. No one controls me. I need be strong or else I will be taken advantage of. I work hard and play hard."

Sexual frustration: "I want more sex, and when I reveal my softer side I am taken advantage of. Partners do not match my strength."

By Ann Gadd

Eights have an intrinsic sense of self in partnerships and relationships, but they have issues with processing feelings.

By recognising and understanding the truth of this "sense of self" they can be extremely valuable for seeing through some of the major features of ego. 

Upon walking into a room, the auto response is: "I am the centre, I am important and now deal with it, because now that I'm here something is going to happen."

They feel that everything meaningful happens in relation to them.

Dichotomy is puritan/hedonist

Due to calamities in childhood these souls were forced into believing that to be vulnerable or to trust anyone was dangerous. In order to compensate this deeply ingrained belief the idealization that became part of the Eight's thought system is "I am competent, I can do this myself."

As a reactive type who seeks self reliance and independence, the desire is to rely on oneself with little need for others. 

Their deep fear is of being controlled or dominated, and thus they fear feelings of vulnerability, trust, intimacy or caring too much

This gives rise to a tendency to keep their guard up and not let others get too close. Rather they toughen themselves when hurt so to with their need for others.

"I am competent."

Eights in the workplace and in professional life are assertive types who can be ego-oriented and ego-expansive. When stress rises they can reinforce and inflate their ego, expanding it in the face of difficulty rather than withdrawing, backing down or seeking protection.

They are not afraid of taking the heat and are extremely effective when the difficulties arise. They are therefore looked upon for guidance as team leaders, persevering through to the other side.

Lesson 76 of 'A Course in Miracles' Jesus

I am under no laws but God's.

We have observed before how many senseless things have seemed to you to be salvation. Each has imprisoned you with laws as senseless as itself. You are not bound by them. Yet to understand that this is so, you must first realize salvation lies not there. While you would seek for it in things that have no meaning, you bind yourself to laws that make no sense. Thus do you seek to prove salvation is where it is not.

Today we will be glad you cannot prove it. For if you could, you would forever seek salvation where it is not, and never find it. The idea for today tells you once again how simple is salvation. Look for it where it waits for you, and there it will be found. Look nowhere else, for it is nowhere else.

Think of the freedom in the recognition that you are not bound by all the strange and twisted laws you have set up to save you. You really think that you would starve unless you have stacks of green paper strips and piles of metal discs. You really think a small round pellet or some fluid pushed into your veins through a sharpened needle will ward off disease and death. You really think you are alone unless another body is with you.

It is insanity that thinks these things. You call them laws, and put them under different names in a long catalogue of rituals that have no use and serve no purpose. You think you must obey the "laws" of medicine, of economics and of health. Protect the body, and you will be saved.

These are not laws, but madness. The body is endangered by the mind that hurts itself. The body suffers just in order that the mind will fail to see it is the victim of itself. The body's suffering is a mask the mind holds up to hide what really suffers. It would not understand it is its own enemy; that it attacks itself and wants to die. It is from this your "laws" would save the body. It is for this you think you are a body.

There are no laws except the laws of God. This needs repeating, over and over, until you realise it applies to everything that you have made in opposition to God's Will. Your magic has no meaning. What it is meant to save does not exist. Only what it is meant to hide will save you.

The laws of God can never be replaced. We will devote today to rejoicing that this is so. It is no longer a truth that we would hide. We realize instead it is a truth that keeps us free forever. Magic imprisons, but the laws of God make free. The light has come because there are no laws but His.

We will begin the longer practice periods today with a short review of the different kinds of "laws" we have believed we must obey. These would include, for example, the "laws" of nutrition, of immunization, of medication, and of the body's protection in innumerable ways. Think further; you believe in the "laws" of friendship, of "good" relationships and reciprocity. Perhaps you even think that there are laws which set forth what is God's and what is yours. Many "religions" have been based on this. They would not save but damn in Heaven's name. Yet they are no more strange than other "laws" you hold must be obeyed to make you safe.

There are no laws but God's. Dismiss all foolish magical beliefs today, and hold your mind in silent readiness to hear the Voice that speaks the truth to you. You will be listening to One Who says there is no loss under the laws of God. Payment is neither given nor received. Exchange cannot be made; there are no substitutes; and nothing is replaced by something else. God's laws forever give and never take.

Hear Him Who tells you this, and realize how foolish are the "laws" you thought upheld the world you thought you saw. Then listen further. He will tell you more. About the Love your Father has for you. About the endless joy He offers you. About His yearning for His only Son, created as His channel for creation; denied to Him by his belief in hell.

Let us today open God's channels to Him, and let His Will extend through us to Him. Thus is creation endlessly increased. His Voice will speak of this to us, as well as of the joys of Heaven which His laws keep limitless forever. We will repeat today's idea until we have listened and understood there are no laws but God's. Then we will tell ourselves, as a dedication with which the practice period concludes:

I am under no laws but God's.

We will repeat this dedication as often as possible today; at least four or five times an hour, as well as in response to any temptation to experience ourselves as subject to other laws throughout the day. It is our statement of freedom from all danger and all tyranny. It is our acknowledgment that God is our Father, and that His Son is saved.

AND

Lesson 152 of "A Course in Miracles" - Jesus

The power of decision is my own.

No one can suffer loss unless it be his own decision. No one suffers pain except his choice elects this state for him. No one can grieve nor fear nor think him sick unless these are the outcomes that he wants. And no one dies without his own consent. Nothing occurs but represents your wish, and nothing is omitted that you choose. Here is your world, complete in all details. Here is its whole reality for you. And it is only here salvation is.

You may believe that this position is extreme, and too inclusive to be true. Yet can truth have exceptions? If you have the gift of everything, can loss be real? Can pain be part of peace, or grief of joy? Can fear and sickness enter in a mind where love and perfect holiness abide? Truth must be all-inclusive, if it be the truth at all. Accept no opposites and no exceptions, for to do so is to contradict the truth entirely.

Salvation is the recognition that the truth is true, and nothing else is true. This you have heard before, but may not yet accept both parts of it. Without the first, the second has no meaning. But without the second, is the first no longer true. Truth cannot have an opposite. This can not be too often said and thought about. For if what is not true is true as well as what is true, then part of truth is false. And truth has lost its meaning. Nothing but the truth is true, and what is false is false.

This is the simplest of distinctions, yet the most obscure. But not because it is a difficult distinction to perceive. It is concealed behind a vast array of choices that do not appear to be entirely your own. And thus the truth appears to have some aspects that belie consistency, but do not seem to be but contradictions introduced by you.

As God created you, you must remain unchangeable, with transitory states by definition false. And that includes all shifts in feeling, alterations in conditions of the body and the mind; in all awareness and in all response. This is the all-inclusiveness which sets the truth apart from falsehood, and the false kept separate from the truth, as what it is.

Is it not strange that you believe to think you made the world you see is arrogance? God made it not. Of this you can be sure. What can He know of the ephemeral, the sinful and the guilty, the afraid, the suffering and lonely, and the mind that lives within a body that must die? You but accuse Him of insanity, to think He made a world where such things seem to have reality. He is not mad. Yet only madness makes a world like this.

To think that God made chaos, contradicts His Will, invented opposites to truth, and suffers death to triumph over life; all this is arrogance. Humility would see at once these things are not of Him. And can you see what God created not? To think you can is merely to believe you can perceive what God willed not to be. And what could be more arrogant than this?

Let us today be truly humble, and accept what we have made as what it is. The power of decision is our own. Decide but to accept your rightful place as co-creator of the universe, and all you think you made will disappear. What rises to awareness then will be all that there ever was, eternally as it is now. And it will take the place of self-deceptions made but to usurp the altar to the Father and the Son.

Today we practice true humility, abandoning the false pretense by which the ego seeks to prove it arrogant. Only the ego can be arrogant. But truth is humble in acknowledging its mightiness, its changelessness and its eternal wholeness, all-encompassing, God's perfect gift to His beloved Son. We lay aside the arrogance which says that we are sinners, guilty and afraid, ashamed of what we are; and lift our hearts in true humility instead to Him Who has created us immaculate, like to Himself in power and in love.

The power of decision is our own. And we accept of Him that which we are, and humbly recognize the Son of God. To recognize God's Son implies as well that all self-concepts have been laid aside, and recognized as false. Their arrogance has been perceived. And in humility the radiance of God's Son, his gentleness, his perfect sinlessness, his Father's Love, his right to Heaven and release from hell, are joyously accepted as our own.

Now do we join in glad acknowledgment that lies are false, and only truth is true. We think of truth alone as we arise, and spend five minutes practicing its ways, encouraging our frightened minds with this:

The power of decision is my own.
This day I will accept myself as what
my Father's Will created me to be.

Then will we wait in silence, giving up all self-deceptions, as we humbly ask our Self that He reveal Himself to us. And He Who never left will come again to our awareness, grateful to restore His home to God, as it was meant to be.

In patience wait for Him throughout the day, and hourly invite Him with the words with which the day began, concluding it with this same invitation to your Self. God's Voice will answer, for He speaks for you and for your Father. He will substitute the peace of God for all your frantic thoughts, the truth of God for self-deceptions, and God's Son for your illusions of yourself.

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LESSON 190

I choose the joy of God instead of pain.

Pain is a wrong perspective. When it is experienced in any form, it is a proof of self-deception. It is not a fact at all. There is no form it takes that will not disappear if seen aright. For pain proclaims God cruel. How could it be real in any form? It witnesses to God the Father's hatred of His Son, the sinfulness He sees in him, and His insane desire for revenge and death.

Can such projections be attested to? Can they be anything but wholly false? Pain is but witness to the Son's mistakes in what he thinks he is. It is a dream of fierce retaliation for a crime that could not be committed; for attack on what is wholly unassailable. It is a nightmare of abandonment by an Eternal Love, which could not leave the Son whom It created out of love.

Pain is a sign illusions reign in place of truth. It demonstrates God is denied, confused with fear, perceived as mad, and seen as traitor to Himself. If God is real, there is no pain. If pain is real, there is no God. For vengeance is not part of love. And fear, denying love and using pain to prove that God is dead, has shown that death is victor over life. The body is the Son of God, corruptible in death, as mortal as the Father he has slain.

Peace to such foolishness! The time has come to laugh at such insane ideas. There is no need to think of them as savage crimes, or secret sins with weighty consequence. Who but a madman could conceive of them as cause of anything? Their witness, pain, is mad as they, and no more to be feared than the insane illusions which it shields, and tries to demonstrate must still be true.

It is your thoughts alone that cause you pain. Nothing external to your mind can hurt or injure you in any way. There is no cause beyond yourself that can reach down and bring oppression. No one but yourself affects you. There is nothing in the world that has the power to make you ill or sad, or weak or frail. But it is you who have the power to dominate all things you see by merely recognising what you are. As you perceive the harmlessness in them, they will accept your holy will as theirs. And what was seen as fearful now becomes a source of innocence and holiness.

My holy brother, think of this awhile: The world you see does nothing. It has no effects at all. It merely represents your thoughts. And it will change entirely as you elect to change your mind, and choose the joy of God as what you really want. Your Self is radiant in this holy joy, unchanged, unchanging and unchangeable, forever and forever. And would you deny a little corner of your mind its own inheritance, and keep it as a hospital for pain; a sickly place where living things must come at last to die?

The world may seem to cause you pain. And yet the world, as causeless, has no power to cause. As an effect, it cannot make effects. As an illusion, it is what you wish. Your idle wishes represent its pains. Your strange desires bring it evil dreams. Your thoughts of death envelop it in fear, while in your kind forgiveness does it live.

Pain is the thought of evil taking form, and working havoc in your holy mind. Pain is the ransom you have gladly paid not to be free. In pain is God denied the Son He loves. In pain does fear appear to triumph over love, and time replace eternity and Heaven. And the world becomes a cruel and a bitter place, where sorrow rules and little joys give way before the onslaught of the savage pain that waits to end all joy in misery.

Lay down your arms, and come without defence into the quiet place where Heaven's peace holds all things still at last. Lay down all thoughts of danger and of fear. Let no attack enter with you. Lay down the cruel sword of judgment that you hold against your throat, and put aside the withering assaults with which you seek to hide your holiness.

Here will you understand there is no pain. Here does the joy of God belong to you. This is the day when it is given you to realize the lesson that contains all of salvation's power. It is this: Pain is illusion; joy, reality. Pain is but sleep; joy is awakening. Pain is deception; joy alone is truth.

And so again we make the only choice that ever can be made; we choose between illusions and the truth, or pain and joy, or hell and Heaven. Let our gratitude unto our Teacher fill our hearts, as we are free to choose our joy instead of pain, our holiness in place of sin, the peace of God instead of conflict, and the light of Heaven for the darkness of the world.

Eight - A Deeper Look into the challenger

Type Eight is the externalized or expanded version of the Nine. While Nines have lost their personal position, Eights tend to have a personal position on everything. While Nines turn their anger back inside, Eights project it out into the world and feel justified to do so by blaming others for the state of affairs on every turn. Eight Types are known as the Challenger, the Protector or the Boss. These names are given to them because they enjoy the challenge of exceeding themselves and giving others the opportunity to do the same. They use their personal power as a tool to dominate the world and take charge, rising to every perceived calamity to defend their innocence or to protect the underdog from injustice.

Eights are charismatic types that possess the physical and psychological capacity to persuade others to follow them into all kinds of endeavors, whether it be from starting a company, rebuilding a city, running a household, waging war or advocating peace.

Eights having enormous willpower and vitality, and feel most alive when exercising these capacities within the world. They use their abundant energy to effect change as well as to keep the environment and others from hurting them or those they care about. They are driven to leave their imprint upon the world but in an unconscious state they merely impose themselves upon the environment and the ones causing the calamities they simply cannot see.

At an early age, Eights understand that in order to protect themselves and those they care about requires strength, will, persistence, and endurance—qualities that they develop in themselves and which they also look for in others.

Eights basic fear and drive is to not be controlled or to allow others to have power over them. Whether this power is psychological, sexual, social, or financial, the Eight is motivated to ensure that they retain and increase whatever power they have for as long as possible. An Eight can be a political leader such as Donald Trump; a Hollywood king such as Harvey Weinstein; the chief of a media empire such as Foxtel; a general such as Russel Crowe in the film “The Gladiator”; the head of the mob such as Al Pacino in film “The Godfather”; a warrior ruler such as Genghis Khan portrayed in the film “Mogul”; a superior of a religious community such as Eli Jaxon Bear or Papaji; or simply the mother of a family such as myself. No matter the role, being “in charge” and leaving their imprint on their sphere is uniquely characteristic of an Eight.

Eights are rough, tough, rugged and true. They stand alone wanting supreme independence and resist being indebted to anyone. They tend to refuse social stigmas and conventions, and can defy fear, shame, and concern about the consequences of their actions. Despite being aware of what people think of them, they rarely let the opinions of others sway them. They go about their business with a steely determination that can be awe inspiring, even intimidating.

While Eights fear physical harm, their fear of being disempowered or controlled is their main concern. Eights, being extraordinarily tough, can absorb a great deal of physical punishment without complaint. They take their health and stamina for granted and therefore unfortunately can overlook the health and well-being of others. Deeply afraid of being hurt emotionally, they'll use their physical strength to protect their feelings by keeping others at a safe emotional distance. Beneath the tough façade of layers of emotional armour is vulnerability. It is the avoidance of vulnerability that compels the Eight to be extremely industrious, but it comes at the price of losing emotional contact with many of the people they care about in their lives. Those close to them may become increasingly dissatisfied with the way they conduct themselves, which confounds the Eight; “I don't understand why my family is never satisfied. I work my arse off to provide for them. Why are they so disappointed?” Eights then feel misunderstood and tend to distance themselves further. In fact, beneath their imposing exterior, Eights will feel hurt and rejected, although they seldom talk about it due to the difficulty of admitting their vulnerability to themselves, let alone to anyone else. Because they fear that they will be rejected, humiliated, criticized or harmed, Eights defend themselves by rejecting others first. The general result is that Eights become blocked in their ability to connect with people or love them since love, they feel, gives the other power over them which reawakens their Basic Fear.

The more Eights build up their egos in order to protect themselves, the more sensitive they become to their self respect and authority, whether it be real, slight or imaginary. The more they attempt to make themselves impervious to any form of hurt or pain, the more they “shut down” emotionally and become like a hardened rock. The picture of the oyster is fitting here.

Emotionally healthy Eights, however, have a resourceful “can-do” attitude as well as a steady inner drive. They take the initiative and make things happen with a great passion for life. They are natural leaders who have a solid, commanding presence and are honorable and authoritative. Their grounded nature gives them abundant “common sense” and the ability to be decisive.

Eights are willing to “take the heat,” knowing that any decision will not please everyone, but tend to look after the interests of those they are in charge of or caring for without playing favourites. They endeavour to use their talents and fortitude to create a better world for everyone in their lives.

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